2009年11月14日星期六
Teach you how to deal with baby's resistance period of
When the baby will turn the greater the time? Do you find your baby's temperament doubled the growth of start and you confront out? In fact, this is the baby's resistance to the period, which is an independent character formation and development of young children self-important formative years. Discipline during this period is slightly inappropriate, it is easy to cause your baby grow up strong character contrast, then how the situation? Four major coup allows you to easily teach your baby's resistance period 1, calm analysis and processing, can not be head-on Baby that her mother in the kitchen cooking is very fun things, but also want to Move pots scoop spoon, playing a play kitchen knife, and gas stove. Then you use the head-on means to rebuke him: "Do not make trouble, while playing to go." Or to take brutal beatings stranger out of his way, have stifled his curiosity, but let him be more confrontational. Parents should calmly analyze the child out of curiosity, to think about the kitchen to play, not maliciously trouble. So, give him make it clear: the kitchen, insecurity, there is fire, there are knives and other risk factors, a child can not fumble or tamper with. To meet the baby's curiosity, you can give him to buy a mini-kitchen toys, or a small bowl with some plastic, vials, tsp when the kitchen, and every family played the game with him. Wayward children will be skillfully resolved. Second, to divert attention and can not Xintai Ruan Often seen at the store as requested by parents with young children to buy this buy that, can not satisfy the crying. Parents fear children are crying, but also afraid of losing face, heart and soft on the money or the. This is absolutely undesirable, baby this time win the day, and next time will be crying the same threatening manner. You take a step back, he would go into two steps. In fact, the child's attention is very easy to spread, you can use a novelty to open his attention. Such as pretending to be excited about him, said: "there have a pet park, let's look at a small dog it." Or, said: "Our home has a new animated by the CD-ROM extremely attractive." You give him vivid description of Let's talk about animation story. Baby's attention was quickly drawn to other places, things just naturally forgotten. 3, first prompt punishment, unable to speak does not count Summer, hot weather and high temperatures before eating baby always Naozhao first Chi Xuegao, or not eat. Mother found out about kids eating too much cool stuff Shang Wei, afraid that the child of person is on a fool baby: "You eat first, and then Chi Xuegao finished." But after dinner, my mother pretended to forget that baby had been deceived no longer believe in you, the next without first Chi Xuegao determined not to eat. To deal with wayward children, the parents did not count was a taboo to speak, only make him even more intensified the wayward. The best approach is first prompted him, and if you eat well today, take a break after a meal can be Chixue Gao. If a child can have a good dinner, then the meal according to agreed to do it. If he still tells us to play is not good to eat, it does not need to Chi Xuegao to punish him. Even if he again struggles, parents must not pity, to accommodate. After several rounds of battle, the children see you their words, he had no loopholes to exploit, but also will be restrained. 4, temporarily avoided and can not be tolerated Every weekend, my mother would stew for lunch favorite Pork baby. Mom did not have time to work overtime this weekend stew. At lunch time to see the baby on the table does not Pork, immediately put their jobs a push - Recall of rice. Father angrily said: "Do not picky eaters, what to eat anything." Facing the baby yelled: "I want to eat meat." Father and son refused to give ground, leaving a flurry. Experience does not meet the requirements on the entanglement of children, the best approach is to temporarily avoid. Baby is not refrain from eating? You grown-ups do not control him, and continue to eat your meals, he would go downtown on the trouble with him, nothing to do with hunger meal. Firstly, he was trouble enough, will naturally be hungry and getting food to eat. Secondly, he saw adults to ignore its own, Naoliaobantian did not use, they will naturally stopped. Mama Do not say: "Baby Do not cry, Mom which gives you roast pork to go." Appeasement of the self-willed He could only exacerbate the adverse psychological self-centered.
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